well, in anticipation of all the eyes that may come flooding to this page (and in appreciation for the ones that just reminded me to update some pages), i didn’t want to lead with “i hate oatmeal”. (but i do, it’s not good at all).
what a whirlwind of a 10 days being back home in toronto, after a week in the lower mainland, and four on more airplanes than i have been on in my life, traipsing across asia. i am sure that i will be processing the trip for many, many moments to come, but for now-i am great-full for free public pools (because it’s been a hot mother nature summer), that i am caught up in all-stars (thank you, lucas!), that i’ve had a delicious pork chop (sorry, malaysia), and that i’ve been able to sleep in my own bed again.
i’m great-full for my period aligning with my bestie’s, being urged on by the talks that i’ve had with my amazing ex-boxer of a neighbour about menopause, and that we’ve been able to witness the tita collective and their sold-out fringe show ms. titaverse on a thursday in the middle of the day because we are a PHD student and a soon-to-be writing workshop facilitator. i’m great-full that i ran into my angel sean there, because he’s a reminder that we were once in a musical together, and i always seem to cross paths with him at creative and joyous impasses of life.
speaking of, i’m sooo great-full for david and start writing for folding me into the mix, and that i got to witness the mug circulation service at hale coffee (et al) and pick up our gorgeous posters. i’m so great-full that the first one i stapled was near dundas west station, because that was my very first neighbourhood in the city, and not far from where i spied my first writers bootcamp poster, on a post near keele station.
i’m great-full to priscilla for bamboozling me into getting the $26 clear PH balm with a teeny flower in it, and have already passed that along to two other people. i’m great-full to have had the beyonce-adjacent experience, and a day of kismet trying to get in. i decided not to go that night, but now that i’m not going to mexico next month, i will allow myself a virgo bday trip to my hometown, IF i submit the piece of writing that’s been in my inbox for months. i’m feeling pretty good on my personal turnaround rate lately, so i’m excited about that.
i’m great-full that my love has cleaned my oven (though i just bought a new toaster oven and it’s very hot, so we’ll see when i use it next) while i was gone, and i’m glad we’ve gotten to snuggle-and stuff. we still have a lot to get caught up on, but it’s nice to be able to be close again. additionally, i’m great-full that we’ve gotten to eat lamb baklava and turkish street food with his lovely sister, before she goes off on her next adventure. it’s also a coup to see our charcutier in the wild.
i’m great-full for tayberries (hybrid of raspberries and blackberries) at the farmer’s market (where i also saw apa again!) and eating mulberries in the backyard with my favourite baby (who now has a private swing) and her parents (and giant cat)-it’s good to be home. they’re away for a week, so dance party rules will apply.
i’m great-full for trinh dinh le minh‘s thua me con di (goodbye mother), a gorgeous film that cuts a bit too close (but in a mostly good way). i’m great-full that i can watch it on hoopla, and that i didn’t need most of the subtitles. i’m excited to immerse myself in film to improve my vietnamese, as it’s a more natural way than the duolingo skill tree, but we are maintaining there as well. just passed 1750 days, and was able to maintain my streak while i was away.
we’re still carving away at our various fiton challenges as well, and i’m great-full for the opportunity to keep moving my body and challenging my mind.
i’m great-full to edwidge danticat for her short story collection everything inside. i don’t know why it’s taken me this long to get to her, but i’m glad i’m here now. it’s a lovely companion to the chris kattan autobiography that i am also keke-ing my way through, and it’s interesting that it’s the second time in a week (the first was in the we regret to inform you podcast) that i read about jim carrey writing himself a 10 million dollar cheque five years in the future that he more than was able to cash, so maybe i should start writing-cheques?
i’m also great-full for bel-air, and the nuances of a darker approach (like riverdale) i love that there is something that ties each character to the original, but a lot more that went into the reimagining. i’m usually not about reboots, but this isn’t so much a reboot, but a redux.
on that note, may we all not be so much as a reboot, but a redux.
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